Think of yourself as an author sitting down to write a book. You need a subject for your book.

A compelling character to anchor the story. What are you going to write about? Here’s the answer – your own life. Your story is very compelling. But everything that you have experienced so far in your life is backstory (the things that have happened to a character that occur before the narrative starts). Backstory can inform and shade your character but will not be in the book you, as author, are about to write. Your new story begins right now. Now, what are you going to write about? Page one starts today.

As an author you will begin by taking your character and plotting out a series of events.

Remember it should be plausible. Your character can’t be a secretary one day and a rock star the next. There has to be progression and continuity – a secretary could evolve into a rock star. Plot out the way it could happen. You are going to take your character from this point in time until death. It takes some planning doesn’t it? It takes active imagination. It takes intent. This is the way we should all be living our lives. With specific intent. With a happy ending in mind, so that when you turn the last page of the book, you break into a warm knowing smile, maybe dry a small tear of heartfelt emotion and know it was a life well lived. A life of accomplishment. A legacy of purpose.

EXERCISE

For those bold and brave souls who want to begin writing that book, it is a perfect way to begin writing in your journal. For everyone else, a method to begin plotting your course in life is to list 101 things you want to experience before you die.

It is necessary to put the power of thought into active motion. So many of us have deep whispers in

our minds but show no effort or intent to turn our internal thoughts into reality.

This outlines the most common thought process most of us follow. Start with belief. We all have beliefs. We acquire them through experience, observation and conditioning. They are the baseline upon which we operate, and we are conditioned to protect our beliefs. They do not change easily.

Our beliefs drive our actions. For example we have learned that by stepping on the gas pedal, a car accelerates. We

believe that to be true. So when we need to go somewhere, what do we do? We get in a car and step on the gas. That action leads to a result. The car moves. We have just reinforced our belief.

Our thought process has now come full circle and here’s where the transition occurs. Most often we allow our results to dictate or revise our beliefs. Then the circular thought process starts all over again.

The problem with allowing results to modify our beliefs is that results can vary. There are any number of factors that can influence a result, and many of them we may not be able to control or even know about.

If you had never been in a car before and all you knew was that stepping on the gas made it go, then you might be in for a frustrating experience. You get in, close the door and press the pedal. It doesn’t go! Well you may not have turned the ignition yet, or the car may be out of gas or in need of repair. Still, you don’t know anything about cars. All you know is it didn’t work no matter how many times you touched the accelerator. You would come away from the result of your action with a damaged belief. Heck, you may never drive again.

In many cases, the results of our actions are not what we anticipate. Sometimes things just don’t work out. Imagine starting the process all over again but with a damaged belief. Maybe you think it’s your fault. Or, that all cars are unreliable. Or, the whole driving thing is way overrated. Low

self-esteem, lack of confidence and just a bad attitude are all common side effects of damaged beliefs.

Instead of a circular thought process, damaged beliefs can lead to a downward spiral. You become emotionally involved with negativity. When you expect bad things to happen, they often do, only proving in your mind you were right to be negative. It’s a steep and slippery slope.

Next thing you know, you are living a life filled with negativity, letdowns and unhappiness. We see people like this all the time – grumpy, bitter folks who never have a good word to say.

Don’t let it happen to you. By simply creating a new starting point in our thought processes, we can ensure an upward spiral instead. How? It’s done by adding goals to the flow chart.

First set your goals – outrageous goals. Believe wholeheartedly in them, and you’ll find it very easy to add emotion to the mix. Let’s face it, your goals

are going to provide a fun and exciting life. Goals are only the stepping stones, but they give you a sense that anything is possible.

Make the decision to act on your goals. Keep in mind that your goals matter. Results of your actions should never affect the belief in your ability to achieve your stated goals.

Now, here’s the key. Chances are that with vigorous and directed action, you’ll reach your goals. But even if your results are not what you expected, the goals are still the important thing. Once you’ve achieved one

goal, you move to the next passionate goal. It can even be a revised version of the first goal. Remember,

we won’t let results affect our belief in our ability to achieve,

but we can learn from our results. We can make adjustments and tweaks in our actions that will help us move forward to the next goal.

This is a pattern of intent that can serve you for life.